Sadly, we can’t all be as suave and debonair as dudes like Ryan Gosling. (If you’re like us, your flirting skills are better described as, “Michael Cera in pretty much every Michael Cera movie.”)

But hey, it helps to know you’re not alone. In the video above, BuzzFeed highlights some of the most awkward flirting confessions people have made on the secret-sharing app Whisper. 

 Our favorite: “Met a really cute girl. She started to flirt with me and asked what my name was. My response? ‘I don’t know.'” 

 Yeah, that person definitely does not have Gosling-like game. 

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